2009年7月21日 星期二

[feminizingsissies] Would you like to become a better sissy?

Dear Mistresses, masters and sissies, With the permission of the group moderators, I'd like to extend a warm welcome and invitation for anyone interested in the Feminization of males and the undoubted benefits this
can bring to the fortunate owners of these sissies to join the Yahoo! Group Sissie's Life and Times. Sissie is the sissy Maid cuckold of Madam Rebecca and they have lived this life together for over twenty years.  They are both active within the group and the letters and files contain a wealth of information on the subject. I'm attaching an example of a recent article written by Madam Rebecca, but please come and see for yourself at http://groups.yahoo.com/group/sissieslifeandtimes/ . All we ask is that your profile show an adult age. In return, Madam Rebecca and Sissie welcome you to post a similar message in their group as they understand that we can all learn from one another. Love, Nancy
 
What Level Maid are You? by Madam Rebecca I am often guilty of lumping all sissy maids together as if they were all the same. But being a sissy maid involves various skill levels as well as attitude, capability, poise, professionalism etc. It's an honour to reach each level but especially the highest level of First, First Maid. Let's take a quick look at each level:
 
Level - 1 - Maid Applicant: A male who shows a desire to become a maid. He will exhibit a desire to do housework as well as other menial work. He will show he is humble and obedient. He will be wearing panties. And will have fantasized about being put into a maid's uniform. He has never worn a maid's uniform and performed maids work.
 
Level - 2 - Maid Trainee: The maid trainee wears a maid's uniform and full female under garments, a wig and make up and performs typical maids work while so dressed. The maid may be under direct supervision but often times are being self taught which is very commendable. At one time it was not practical for a male to self train but with the advent of the internet and all of the wonderful material now available it is quite easy for a dedicate male to be self trained. Any time I take on a maid trainee that has been self taught the common denominator is embarrassment and depression that they were not trained by an owner. And while there are certainly advantages to having an owner train one. There are also disadvantages. A self trained male maid shows his true desire to perfect his maidness! Some of the points that I would stress to any male maid undergoing self training is to demand discipline of yourself.

Set a schedule and set goals and keep them. Reward yourself regularly when you meet these criteria and punish yourself when you don't. Rewards should always be feminine in nature, new panties, new bra, new dress, new make-up, etc. Punishments should be the removal of masculine things; these masculine things are the root of your discipline problems and need to be removed. Make a list of all the favourite things you liked as a man, watching sports, drinking beer, fishing, etc. Now devise a substitute, if you don't meet you goal you trade watching sports with watching make-up and fashion shows, replace drinking beer with creating your own tea party and drinking tea from a cup while properly attired for a tea party. Instead of going fishing go to the fabric store and buy a pattern and some material and make yourself a dress. Make your list before hand and so you know what the reward or penalty is. The other mistake I see trainees on their own make is to go to fast and too hard. If you lace your waist down 4 inches in a corset and try to work you will pass out. Take your time and keep improving each day. Don't start out in 6 inch spike heels start out in 2 or 3 inch heels. This is a time to learn about proper feminine wear, make-up, walking, sitting and also and just as important, cleaning products. What you use in the bathroom, kitchen, on the furniture and carpet. How to do laundry properly. If you just want to wear the maid's uniform you are strictly in it for the fetish effect and that's not why a woman or man for that matter wants a sissy maid! I also recommend a daily or preferably twice daily discipline meditation session. Nothing works as well as spending a half hour twice a day in a closet impaled in both
ends with a dildo and studying pictures of perfect sissy maids.
 
Level -3 – Assistant Maid: An assistant maid is only one step above a maid trainee but is given some responsibilities. She works directly under or with a maid and helps the maid do tasks that require or go faster with two maids. The assistant maid will spend a lot of time in the corner.  When not needed she will be sent to the nearest specified corner so that she is immediately available but out of the way. For example if laundry
is being done the assistant maid may be placed into the corner in the laundry room to wait for the washer or dryer to finish their cycle. She will leave the corner and perform the task then immediately return to the corner. It is a misnomer that as a maid advances that discipline diminishes, the reality is that as the maid advances discipline is expected at much higher degrees. Corner time should not be considered punishment time but rather a chance to review ones work and schedule. As with the maid trainee, the servants should spend the ½ hour twice per day in the closet impaled and viewing photos of good maids.
 
Level - 4– Maid: Becoming a full maid is an honour. It means the maid knows how to dress, act, work and can be trusted to do so on her own. It also means the maid has some freedom to make maid decisions. For example, if the maid is capable of doing laundry and polishing furniture at the same time, the corner exercise may be eliminated. But all maids should spend at least twice per day in a corner for 10 minutes to gather their wits and review who they are and what they are there for. A real maid will tell you that this time is a time of feeling submission and comfort and is helpful to their mental attitude. Maids typically do the out of sight
work and are not yet ready for public duty. They spend most of their time doing housework, dishes; laundry etc. uniforms remain plain and simple.
 
Level - 5 – Sissy Maid: The sissy maid is a delight. The maid has graduated to wearing very frilly and pretty uniforms and attire. This is a huge status increase to the male maid, to be able to wear frilly panties, petticoats and lace dresses 5 inch heels and be seen by others! By now the male realizes fully his place in life is being submissive and obedient to his owner, being dressed like a sissy doll and kept as a toy and servant. He will be displayed and shown off to others as to the extent of his submission, training, obedience and most of all total emasculation! Especially for the married woman, having her husband so well transformed as to openly parade around the home serving her in front of guests and friends is quite empowering. What female friend would not be envious of her power an position? What woman would not envy her having a perfectly trained and obedient maid, totally faithful and trustworthy? What woman would not crave her freedom to do as she pleases without having to justify herself to a Man?
 
Level - 6 -Sissy Maid Cuckold: This maid accepts a certain reality of his destiny.  His wife has taken lovers and trained him to not only serve those lovers as he would her but to respect and honour them. The accomplished sissy maid cuckold has achieved the highest degree of perfection as a servant.  He has lost every vestige of his manhood and become a completely defeated and obedient subservient feminized sissy maid. He serves his wife and her lover in bed greeting them with smiles and curtsey. He performs his duties of cooking and serving with expertise and grace and always with pleasantries that would be fitting for the queen! His wife's
love is Sir, or Mister, or Master to him. He obeys his commands as if they are those of the goddess herself. He undergoes the tests and humiliations that his wife's lover will test him with to measure his lace and fringe by! The sissy maid cuckold does not complain of his wife's affairs but rather helps her bathe and dress for him, thanks her lover in writing with grace and determination and invites him back for more. He submits graceful, willingly and enthusiastically to her lover's sexual or disciplinary demands and graciously thanks him for his efforts to improve him as a sissy maid cuckold. The wife of a sissy maid cuckold takes great pride in her creation and invokes great envy from her friends. She loves her little sissy and knows his submission to her is
for her joy and this feeling of great power excites her and makes sex with her love much better than if these conditions do not occur. It is therefore the main purpose of the sissy maid cuckold to make sex between
his wife and her love much better than if he were not there. When this happens, a wide smile of pride forms over the face of the sissy maid cuckold.
 
Level - 7 – First Maid: A first maid is a maid with several maids under her direction and is in charge of directing these maids, training these maids and disciplining these maids. Typically the first maid is over a large party, working in a large mansion or commercial situation such as a motel. It is predicted that by 2016 50%
of all maids in service will be males. The position of First Maid will be a coveted one affording the maid to wear both uniforms and dresses for work depending on her duties that day.
 
Level – 8 – First, First Maid: The First, First maid is an honorary position rather than an actual position is bestowed upon a First maid who has made public appearances and informed the public that she is indeed a male maid in service. This is the type of maid we need to further the knowledge that males make the best maids, are perfectly suitable and trainable. There you have how I rate maid. I hope each of you who own maid or are a maid or want to be maid will read this over and use it to further your training.
 

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